Melissa is really good about taking and posting pics of our family. She created a companion site to this one on shutterfly. I recommend you check it out and subscribe to receive updates when she does updates there.
http://stewartdot5.shutterfly.com
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January 11, 2012
April 19, 2011
Seasons – an update from the Stewarts
The seasons are turning. As things are warming up for those of you in the northern hemisphere, we are moving toward winter here in Cape Town. For our family, this isn’t a time for hibernation at all. In fact, there are a number of new things to tell you about…
Iain’s baptism
Iain was baptised on March 12! He invited quite a few friends to join us for this special time and it was a true celebration of God in his life. Iain did a great job sharing about his commitment to following Jesus and says he is glad that each person in our family helped with scriptures and blessings for the day. Thank you to everyone who has prayed (and continues to pray) for our children with us – God is doing such amazing things in their lives.
Grandpa Lee’s visit
Melissa’s dad – Lee Liddle – visited us for the first two weeks of April. We had a lot of fun introducing him to our new city, neighbourhood, the kids’ school, and friends. It was hard to see him go, but we are thankful for the time together. I think the kids are already talking about the next time Grandpa comes to visit.
Melissa’s latest
When I was younger I always pictured myself having both a career and a family, but was naïve about HOW I would do it all! During our last year and a half with NieuCommunities in Pretoria I realised that I had been operating beyond my relational capacity for quite some time. So, I have been seeking a new vision about how to live as a Jesus follower who is a wife, mother, friend and neighbour. Since returning to South Africa I have been hesitant to take on significant ministry commitments outside of our home and the kids’ school community. Thankfully, God understands me fully. He has surrounded me with caring, welcoming, like-hearted people who are beginning to become wonderful friends and mentors.
I have joined a weekly prayer group currently consisting of women who previously worked for The Warehouse, but have stepped back from those roles in order to be present with their children. A couple of moms from the kids’ school and I have begun walking for exercise one morning a week in a nearby park. I even enjoy most of my regular household duties while the kids are away at school, primarily because I get the house all to myself and no one is saying, “mommy?” I am also able to get to the gym for a class or two each week (I can flex my triceps now;)
Tomorrow I begin volunteering two hours a week at my kids’ school with a non-profit organization called help2read (http://www.help2read.org). Currently there are about 500 volunteers in over 125 schools in the greater Cape Town area. I have been assigned two students who I will see one-on-one for 30 minutes twice a week. As an early childhood educator I resonate with help2read’s child-centered philosophy and am thrilled to have an opportunity to help children learn to love books and become confident readers.
Leading worship & blessing leaders
The last few months have been very fulfilling for me (Arthur) as I’ve had the opportunity to lead or coordinate the morning prayer and worship times at the Warehouse (http://warehouse.org.za/). Each morning, we gather for an hour with God together – absolutely necessary for those working in the difficult realities of poverty and injustice. We believe that our direct encounter with God is THE thing that connects our hearts with God, shaping us more into the image of Jesus and giving us God’s heart for those all around us. It’s just one of the ways I get to pour into the lives of these amazing leaders. In the upcoming months, I will turn more of my attention to working with local church leaders. There is such a huge need here to care for, encourage, and listen to pastors. These men and women are given the responsibility of guiding God’s people, yet who looks after their hearts? Because the Warehouse’s mission is to serve the church in its response to poverty and injustice, one way we can help them is by ministering to their leaders. Please pray for me as I move into this important (and exciting) role.
A great way to keep up to date on what God is doing through the Warehouse is to sign up for the newsletter mailing list: http://warehouse.org.za/newslettersignupform
Mairin is turning 7 on April 28th!
“We are going to have my birthday party at a park. My friends and I are going to play and have a cake with butterflies. I am very excited to be seven 
”
Arthur Paul high school update
“I’ve sent in all of the applications and am waiting for a reply from either. It’s pretty boring just waiting for news :/” – AP. Just a note to say thank you to everyone for praying with us through the high school visiting and application process. We have applied for two schools and will hear back in the next month or two on acceptance.
We are missionaries
God has asked us to live in Cape Town, South Africa, and we have said yes to this and all that He asks of us. We are sent and supported by churches and individuals who believe in us and are investing in the Kingdom work we do while partnering with and working for local ministries. We need prayer, encouragement, and financial help to do this. I point this out because while many are encouraged (inspired?) by what God is doing with our lives, they don’t know that we raise our own support to do this. Maybe God wants you to be part of this with us. If you are feeling a nudge, email me.
Two links for you to check out
- Andrew Breitenberg – friend and neighbour who is sharing good news through street art here in Cape Town http://breitenberg.wordpress.com/
- Different church – a blog I have begun to share some thoughts on faith community possibilities (please subscribe!) http://differentchurch.wordpress.com/
May this season bring good things in your life!
Arthur for the Stewart5
March 20, 2010
the wellspring of life
A heart is a fascinating thing -
It can be hard or strong or bitter.
It can be tender or soft or generous.
it can be several (or all?) of these at the same time!
Do you also find hearts to be complex, mysterious, even confusing? Certainly true when it comes to others. Often true when it comes to ourselves… What I do know is that my heart is important. It’s the core of who I am and it’s the only one I’ve got. In the Biblical book of Proverbs, it says, “Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life” (4:23). I’m learning to do this.
Most of my life, I have guarded my mind. I have fed it, trusted it, protected it. This is a very important part of who I am. However, I have often neglected my heart as a result. In a way, I have not allowed my heart to do it’s job. And, I haven’t guarded it well. I don’t think “guard your heart” means to build walls around it. Guard, in that case, sounds defensive and reactionary. Seems like if you do that, it can’t be “the wellspring of life.” How can a well nourish anything if it’s all walled up? I am speaking from a bit of experience on this…
Rather, I think that in this case, “guard” really means to watch and protect. Watch and protect your heart, for your life flows from there. Watch for the things that would harm your heart – people, situations, etc. In my case, I have been reflecting on the untrue things I sometimes believe that “attack” my heart. And, how can I prepare myself better to deal with them? Personally, I need to remember who I am so I am not easily affected by other messages that come my way and can be ok with my own limitations.
Hearts are precious. I think they are a primary way we reflect the God who created us, and are the places we most deeply connect with God. We have given our lives to helping people find/uncover/unbind their hearts and encouraging their development and expression. That’s not a bad way to describe what we’ve been doing the past several years in South Africa and why we are preparing to head back. It’s also what our sabbatical has been all about: reconnecting with our own hearts and giving them room to breathe and re-ignite. I thank God for this opportunity to focus on this all-important process.
We appreciate all of you who have prayed and encouraged our hearts so much in this season. Our hearts, and those of our children, feel more healthy. These eternal hearts are important to me and to God. Your heart is important too. Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.
March 11, 2010
Seeking the Giver
My wife Melissa is demonstrating an amazing amount of maturity these days. I am both in awe and frustrated! Here’s why…
As many of you know, we are finishing up our sabbatical. Entering our last months, we are making multiple decisions – big ones, small ones, and many that open up a multitude of other decisions. These decisions relate to where we will be, what we will be doing, when… little things like that So, important stuff.
And the PROCESS of these discussions and decisions is as telling as the results. We are giving some of the work we and God have been doing in our lives and marriage a pretty good exercise. How is our intimacy, how is our trust, can we say what we think, can we hear things we don’t like from one another, can we apologize?
I have to admit, I am a little more anxious than Melissa to get these conversations and decisions happening. And although I wish we knew everything yesterday, I am proud that she is committed to waiting until she is confident in some things before moving forward. Frustrated a bit, but proud. She is bringing her strengths of thoughtfulness and discernment to our shared process. And as I was telling a friend on the phone the other day, in watching her process I am reminded of a very good maxim… Seek the Giver.
back-story: when I was growing up in church, one of the principles that always came up when talking about spiritual gifts (those ways God supernaturally empowers people to serve) was, “don’t seek the gifts, but the gift-giver.” In other words, don’t get overly-fixated on these specific gifts God can give (essentially a self-centered approach). Instead, seek God, and let His Spirit give gifts as God deems appropriate (see 1 Corinthians 12).
This came to mind as I was saying how one of the ways Melissa is discerning God’s desire is by being involved in a local Bible study on Jesus. She isn’t only sitting with God and asking, “should we move to X?” every day. Instead, she is connecting well with God, for the sake of their relationship alone. I’m pretty confident that as she does, God is and will speak to those specifics because God loves her and knows they are important questions.
Thank you beloved for this reminder. So glad to be doing this with you!
February 16, 2010
changing habits
Melissa and I have never been one of those couples who consistently spend time praying together each evening. Don’t panic! Yes, we pray – together and alone… often. But it’s never been a scheduled every day practice for us. Anyone else out there in this category??
It’s been one of those areas that both of us have wanted to change. And for years we’ve talked about it, tried all sorts of different ideas, and remained frustrated with ourselves that we couldn’t do what we actually wanted. However, like a lot of other areas in our lives and relationship, we’re taking advantage of our sabbatical to make a change. Change takes time to sink in, but it requires us to make consistent decisions one day at a time.
During Lent (the Church season leading up to Easter), we are committing to doing a short meditation together each evening. We are using a resource produced by Church Resource Ministries (our missions organization). We think this will help us establish a new rhythm, a new habit, that we want to be part of our lives.
If you are like me, it’s easy to over-plan, over-commit, and give up too soon. That’s why I like having something we are both excited about that is do-able. Wondering if you have things you would like to be [more] part of your life? Doesn’t have to be something spiritual. Can you start with something small like we are? Would love to encourage you any way we can, so feel free to send us a message and let us know!
btw, if you are interested in CRM’s Lent devotional, you can signup online to receive the daily reflections via email here – http://www.crmleaders.org/lent/
September 23, 2009
Happy Birthday Melissa
Woman of my dreams-
beautiful
strong
dependable
fun
faithful
godly
loving.
Happy birthday darling Melissa.
May 2, 2009
Early Anniversary
Tomorrow, Melissa and I are going to Victoria Falls to celebrate our 15th anniversary! It’s a little early (our anniversary is the 15th), but some scheduling things meant that we needed to go now. With everything we’ve had going on lately, the timing is just right. So looking forward to being together, without the kids and much to do but have fun, rest, and take in the beauty. It’s been too long. Pray for us for the next few days and I’ll post more when we get back.
October 19, 2008
Take a stand AGAINST hate speech in this election!
I’ve signed onto ColorofChange’s open-letter calling out McCain and Palin. ColorOfChange.org will publish it this week, and as they’ve shown in the past, when enough of us stand together, we can force the mainstream media to amplify our message. Will you join us?
excerpt from letter:
In the last few weeks, Senator McCain and Governor Palin, rhetoric at your campaign events has taken an increasingly dangerous tone that seems to ignore the precarious state of our progress when it comes to race and ethnicity. Supporters at your rallies and other events have used hateful language and called for violence against Sen. Obama yelling “kill him!” “off with his head!” and “bomb Obama.”
For the most part, you have stood by in silence. In addition, you have also repeatedly made statements that somehow connect Senator Obama with terrorism. Your surrogates have emphasized his middle name. This is problematic and dangerous, and we believe helps create the conditions that have given rise to these incidents of violent rhetoric from some of your supporters.
Today, we’re standing together as Americans of all political persuasions to express our deep concern that the decisions of your campaign are contributing to a dangerous atmosphere of paranoia, division, and hate that, as we have already seen, has the potential to seriously harm our country and its progress.
Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.” In these trying times, candidates seeking the highest offices in the land must call on the best in each of us, and call off the worst.
We urge you to join people of conscience from all races and backgrounds to reject the politics of division and fear, and come together to uplift the country and create a more equal and just society.
September 26, 2008
Di Lemmas
So, I received TWO Official Absentee Ballots in the mail yesterday. Should I vote twice and send them both? They will catch that and only count one, right? I’m not so sure though, because I am surprised that I received to two ballots, so can I trust them to only count one vote?
AND, do I go ahead and vote now or do I wait to see if anything new unfolds in the seemingly never-ending drama that is The US Presidential Election splashed across Fwd:emails, blogs, and Yahoo?
This will be the first time I am voting by absentee ballot. After I “Completely fill in the oval next to your candidate or issue….using dark ink” I must place my ballot in the Official Election Mail envelope and sign the declaration on the back otherwise my vote is invalid. The Declaration of Voter includes much of what you’d expect, I am a U.S. citizen, at least 18 years of age, temporarily residing outside of the U.S., blah, blah, blah, and then, “I have not been influenced.” I can’t sign my name to that and as a matter of fact who can? We have all been influenced! I think they must mean threatened, coerced, or intimidated, as indicated on another info document included in my official ballot packet. Which, by the way, is a felony.
I do wonder how some of the Fwd: emails, blogs, news articles, commercials, etc. are not considered coercion, intimidation and threatening. The law must be talking about physically rather than emotionally? Cause I must say that some of the stuff I read feels abusive. Not abusive to me personally, but abusive to REAL persons- Joe, John, Sarah and Barack.
Hmmm, anyway, just thinking about influence…
September 22, 2008
Happy Birthday Melissa
I love you.
Looking forward to sharing this next year with you – I think it will be the best one yet…