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Undoubtedly, all of you (friends, regulars, and people who somehow ended up here) are wondering why most of our other pages aren’t working.  Well, it’s technical (related to us changing servers and platforms) and we are working on it.  “We” being JD in his spare time.

  • So, while things are being fixed, why don’t you RSS subscribe and keep on top of all our latest posts.  Would love your comments :)
  • And, check out the photo galleries as Melissa is updating those regularly.


The other pages will be working again soon.

Goodbye Rebel

On Saturday night, one of our cats - Rebel - was hit by a car and died. Melissa and I discovered her body when we got home from dinner out. We put her in the back yard until the next day. On Sunday morning, we got the kids together and broke the news. The boys helped me dig a hole in the back part of our yard and all the kids took strips of cloth from her bed and wrote goodbye notes to Rebel. We put them all in the hole, then Rebel with a tiger t-shirt on top of the body. The kids helped me fill in the grave, then we held hands and said a little prayer.

Melissa made a slide-show from miscellaneous pictures of the cats for the kids. They loved it, especially the pics of the cats when they were much smaller. Of course, the rest of the day was full of questions about what happens after animals die, cat spirits, etc. It’s been interesting to talk through all of those with our first pet death. Iain, in particular, likes to talk about “Spirit Rebel.” Maybe most sad of all is watching our other cat - Luke - who seems pretty lost without his sister.

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product names/brand names

Have you ever noticed how some products are widely known by specific brand names? I have no experience in marketing, but I think when someone calls a product by your brand’s name, it is a victory.

Here are a couple of examples in America:

  • Facial Tissues are often known as Kleenex
  • Adhesive bandages are widely referred to as Band-Aids
  • Cotton swabs are generally called Q-tips

In South Africa:

  • All toothpaste is called Colgate
  • All soft drinks are called Coke
  • Vacuum cleaner are called Hoovers
  • chewing gum is known as Chappies

Send me other examples you can think of…

Short History of South Africa

I found this reasonable short history of South Africa.   Although SA finds its way into the news fairly often, I think most people don’t know much about this country or its history.  Would love to hear what you think after reading it - any surprises, new learnings, things you disagree with?

MaGents

As you may recall, at the end of last year I put out a request for donations for a group of guys Jostina and I have been serving dinner to one night a week. I call them “MaGents.” I quickly received over $400 to sponsor HIV/AIDS testing and counselling for these young men. I am grateful that we were able to help 10 guys (and gift the nurses and counsellors as well) with $30 gift certificates for a local department store. Please pray with me that the knowledge of their individual status and education they received will prevent future infection of HIV and VIMBELA IGCIWANE ELISHA (”Stop the Virus,” in Zulu)!

The day after the 10 guys were tested and given their “gift,” the other 17 guys wanted in on the deal. So, I am asking again, please prayerfully consider how you can partner with us to serve this often neglected population of young men through a financial contribution and/or by spreading the word among those in your network. I need to raise $560 to reach 17 more young men! If you would like information on how to send $$, please email me!

The testing and counselling has been possible through a connection with a local HIV/AIDS resource center called Vimbela Igciwane Elisha. A truly amazing and sacrificial woman, Maria Sekaja, directs this underfunded non profit, grassroots organization based in Pretoria North. Vimbela exists to provide home based care to frail, sick and HIV/AIDS patients, initiate awareness campaigns and various support services to HIV/AIDS infected and affected persons. Vimbela was formed in 2002 by Maria and a group of women from the community concerned about the lack of care and support services available to those infected or affected by HIV/AIDS in the Northern subburbs of Pretoria, South Africa. As a registered non profit organization the staff of Vimbela, currently totalling 8, is responsible for securing funding for the services they provide. They currently offer all services free of charge as the people they serve are impoverished and cannot even afford a minimal fee.

Vimbela Igciwane Elisha operates from an office adjacent to the government run Pretoria North Health Clinic and a sub-office in the nearby township of Soshanguve. Vimbela is the only HIV/AIDS community support organization currently operating in the Northern subburbs of Pretoria. There are three local government health clinics who regularly refer patients to Vimbela. After the initial HIV counselling, testing and post counselling, patients infected by HIV receive no further support from the local clinic outside of health related visits. Daily the staff of Vimbela dedicate themselves to serving this neglected population with little recognition from the larger community as they strive to meet overwhelming needs. Vimbela struggles financially every month just to cover basic operating costs like phone, electricity, and office supplies. These costs must be covered and Maria regularly pays her staff before herself which means that she, and the other staff, often subsidize Vimbela personally each month. Maria, the two counsellors and two nurses who made MaGents testing possible were also given gift vouchers as a small expression of appreciation for their sacrificial dedication to the people they serve. A consistent and generous monthly donation could lessen the burden on Maria and her staff tremendously. Currently, Vimbela’s primary one time need is for a vehicle to transport patients to and from medical appointments. They need approximately $17,000 to purchase a 7 passenger vehicle.

Any help you could give either financially, by spreading the word of these needs to those who might be interested in donating, and even help with researching and requesting grants and donations from companies/organizations in the US would be greatly appreciated. You are welcome to pass along this information to anyone who may be interested. Please ask if you have any further questions or need more information concerning Vimbela and its needs.

strange website happenings

Sorry we haven’t posted in a while.  Besides all the things happening in our lives, we’ve had some technical problems.  First, we were unable to view our site - our OWN  website - for several weeks.  There are still many people in South Africa who can not (for some mysterious reason) get onto our site.  Apparently you can :)  Also, in the midst of changing servers, some things haven’t transitioned so easily and someone may have hacked at the sit a bit.  As of now, the formatting of most of our existing posts are goofy (I have to go back and manually fix them), pics in our posts need to be replaced, and all of the comments are gone.  Apologies to all of you who have commented over time.  I have appreciated feedback and thoughts, and all of those are now erased.  So, I invite everyone to go back through our posts and say something!

More to come soon, so please check back regularly